Or so I’ve been told. I’ll say things just to flatter people, seldom express my own opinions, prefer being “nice & perfect” rather than content, constantly worry about hurting others’ feelings, do things just to make other people feel happy… even if it means putting my own needs or happiness aside. I’m basically living for the approval of others. I guess there’s nothing terribly wrong with trying to satisfy people, but when it comes to the point where if I offend of turn off even one person and then beat myself up over it, neglect my feelings, or allow myself to be manipulated; then I know this is something I badly need to change.
You wanna know why girls take every little detail seriously?
Because we’re scared that maybe, we’re not good enough. We see other girls and think maybe, someone else will take our place. We look through every flaw that we can find. We get insecure. We’re afraid of getting hurt repeatedly. We have trust issues. I don’t know, that’s just how we are. We’re fragile. We’re not something that you should go around playing with and throw away when you’re done. We have feelings too, you know?